No one really contemplates what their life will be like after divorce. One doesn’t think about family barbeque’s (minus one), or birthday parties, or how you’ll feel over the holiday season which goes through the changing of three month names (for those who need help that would be November, December, and January!). Life after divorce is not really what’s on one’s mind when fantasizing of being ...
What does getting a divorce have to do with playing video games? Oh, I don’t know, maybe a need to have a little fun in your life while it is seemingly crumbling down around you.
I don’t play nintendo wii“on a regular basis but when I do boy do I have a good time!
While going through a rough divorce my boys taught me ...
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People cheat because there is a need that is not being met?
Do you agree? I do. I would not have agreed a few short months ago.
I just wrote an article for my Examiner column asking the question: are affairs exciting or evil?
Read my column to get my take. I’ve evolved quite a bit in the last few months ...
Continue Reading →This letter is a reminder that when you are at your darkest moments and you feel alone, you are not. There is an eternal love, a gracious spirit that is always there with you, protecting you, loving you. All is well and anything is possible.
Divorce Guru
“ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE” by Maureen Moss
Dearest Hearts,
As always I pray you are well. Typically I don’t write mid-month newsletters, however after witnessing in tangible ways this week, the shift in ...
Continue Reading →This post is a part of Divorce Guru’s “Divorce, Women, and Success” series. For the next few months I will profile women who have achieved the bulk of their success after divorce to provide you with hope,motivation and inspiration that you too can succeed in life after divorce!
Yours in success!
- Divorce Guru
Continue Reading →“God, who foresaw your tribulation, has specially armed you to go through it, not without pain but without stain.”
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Today’s post is written by a friend of mine, Rie Kang, who sent out this diary/blog entry to her friends in the hopes that other would benefit. I received it, benefited and related. Hope you can relate as well…
-DG
A note to share and maybe you can relate..
by Rie Kang
How do people deal with anger, insecurities and power?
Do they voice what they feel or do they project their emotions by hiding them ...
Continue Reading →I was shocked when I heard about the death of fashion designer Alexander’s McQueen‘s a few days ago. I was saddened when I found out he had committed suicide.
There have been hundreds of articles written about his death, his achievements, his fashions. One thing I noticed was how few times the actual word “suicide” came up when talking about his death.
I believe this is the case because the word suicide, like divorce, carries such ...
Continue Reading →On my radio show Divorce Guru, I speak about the tendency to isolate oneself in life after divorce or breakup. This is why I advocate that after your heart has been ripped from your heart, you need to build and nurture community. Heck, even if you haven’t been divorced, everyone isolates themselves because it’s easier and get comfortable, neglecting the community around you. Surprisingly, I got this message from some of my non-divorced peeps.
I ...
Continue Reading →“Was it a younger woman?” This question has haunted me ever since I separated from my ex husband…I’m young, attractive, smart. So it had to be a younger woman, right?
I went to a cocktail party last night (thanks B.G.!) which was thrown by a political consulting firm. Everyone at the party had something to do with politics, school boards, lawyers, lobbyists, etc. Everyone but me. Know how you go to a party and everyone asks ...
Continue Reading →I know I usually write about fun, and sex (or lack of!) online dating, and sometimes how much my ex gets on my nerves. Well, I haven’t written about my ex getting on my nerves lately because he isn’t. And when he was, it usually had to do with issues that had to deal more with me, not him. So ex-husband if you’re reading this (and I know you are!) we’re cool. What I’ve been thinking ...
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