Okay ladies, I need to talk to you.
I’ve been finding clients telling me “Kim, he was so nice, I thought he really liked me. I thought he could be the one.” This is after they’ve had sex with them and he hasn’t called them in 2 weeks. I have to gently, and calmly let them know that: he was nice, he did probably like you for that moment he wasn’t the one, and he was just trying to get ...
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You need to move on especially if you have little kids. Especially if you want to be happy. Especially if you want to live a good life…a better life.
It is better for both you and your ex to start dating and socializing with other people rather than hating each other. This way, healing will be fast and easy. Well, not fast and easy but…better than hate.
Right?
Continue Reading →*Today’s Guest Post is written by Debbie Lamedman from DatingServices.net.
There are no two ways about it: divorce is both painful and traumatizing. The last thing you may want to do after going through a divorce is start perusing dating websites. Well, it’s best to wait until you are absolutely ready; but when you are, dating websites can be a great way for you to meet new people and move forward with your new, single life.
It may be reassuring to know ...
Continue Reading →*Today’s guest post is written by Amanda Kidd.
Not every marriage is successful. Often, after marriage, people discover differences among each other that make the relationship difficult. A divorce or separation always comes with a huge amount of baggage, both physical and psychological. It is difficult to deal with the idea that you will have to start with life all over again. It is hard to cut out losses, ...
I was recently a guest on the awesome radio show “One Man One Woman” heard exclusively on Talktainment Radio. The topic of the day was “Black Men and Marriage.”
The stats show that black men and women are the least likely of any group in America to get married. What’s going on? And from what I hear there are plenty of black women willing to tie the knot. It’s the black men that are holding up the show.
I ...
Continue Reading →When you have relationships after divorce, it either goes smoothly or it doesn’t. It usually doesn’t.
When there is drama in a romantic relationship it’s most often caused by insecurity.
Are you constantly wondering what your guy is doing, who he’s with, why he hasn’t called, and when you will see him again? Don’t lie, it’s nothing to be ashamed of I’ve done it too. Recently. (If you could see me, you’ll see me shaking my head in shame.) Why do we ...
Continue Reading →This is what I’ve heard from women around the world about what is wrong with them and why dating after divorce will never work for them:
I talked to one of my clients today. Always a good time.
She’s dating multiple men at a time, just like Mama Kim taught her. One of her guys has called every single day since they went out. Except yesterday. My client, hereby known as “Beth” was pissed off.
Beth told me she couldn’t believe he had the nerve to not call. Did I mention that this man has been calling every single day for a week and a half?
I told her ...
Continue Reading →I have a family member. Let’s call her Tammy.
Tammy is a single mother, has a good profession as a nurse and is 30.
Tammy is also adamant that the next man she “get with” have money.
She is dating men for money. And it’s not right.
When you ask her what she wants in a man she says he has to own his own home, drive an expensive car, rock the latest name brand fashions, and give her stuff. I never hear that ...
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I was reading this article about networking and the author simply wrote not to chase business. If someone’s chasing, that means someone is running away.
How perfect is that not only for business but for LOVE!
How do you get a man to love you? Don’t chase him!
If you’re chasing him–calling him every day, texting often, asking him out on dates, filling up his car with premium gas, asking “where is this relationship going?”, cutting his toenails–you’re chasing. And he’s running!
You have ...
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