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		<title>Don&#8217;t let him bother you</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 11:18:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim Hess</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For all the ex-wives who deal with controlling, mean ex-husbands: &#8220;Why do you let him bother you?  As inconsequential as a fly, just swat him away-flies eventually go away, eventually dying, when conditions become inhospitable.&#8221;]]></description>
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		<title>Stop trying to replace love</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2012 13:36:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim Hess</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Stop it. Stop trying to replace love. Those guys you&#8217;re sleeping with? You&#8217;re not sexually free, just starved for attention. And love. You&#8217;re better than that.  Stop trying to replace love and figure out how to love yourself.]]></description>
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		<title>You need to move on if&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 11:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim Hess</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; You need to move on especially if you have little kids.  Especially if you want to be happy.  Especially if you want to live a good life&#8230;a better life. It is better for both you and your ex to start dating and socializing with other people rather than hating each other. This way, healing [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Whatever the cause of your divorce, you can get through it</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 01:26:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim Hess</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[These days, divorce is as common as marriage. You hear about someone getting married one day, you hear about someone getting divorced the next day. Usually not the same marriage. Unless you&#8217;re Kim Kardashian. (Sorry, couldn&#8217;t resist,  I do love me some Kim K,but she was married for like 2 days!) Yet, with all of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What about my baggage? Dating after disappointments or divorce</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Aug 2011 19:17:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim Hess</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[*Today&#8217;s guest post is written by Amanda Kidd. &#160; Not every marriage is successful. Often, after marriage, people discover differences among each other that make the relationship difficult. A divorce or separation always comes with a huge amount of baggage, both physical and psychological. It is difficult to deal with the idea that you will [...]]]></description>
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		<title>There&#8217;s nothing wrong with you: dating after divorce advice</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jul 2011 22:15:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim Hess</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is what I&#8217;ve heard from women around the world about what is wrong with them and why dating after divorce will never work for them: I&#8217;m too fat I have kids I have stretch marks No one&#8217;s going to want a woman in her 50&#8242;s No one&#8217;s going to want a woman in her [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What are you good at after divorce</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jul 2011 15:47:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim Hess</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My sister told me that one of her friends called me a ham and a riot to hang out with. I was introduced to my Dad&#8217;s friend as the &#8220;outgoing&#8221; one (my little sis was described as the &#8220;diva&#8221;-she is awfully fly!) The guy I&#8217;m kinda dating says I overwhelm him-but in a good way. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dating with kids-it&#8217;s all good.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jul 2011 22:06:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim Hess</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I made the humongous decision to move back to Ohio I also made the humongous decision to have my kids remain in school in San Francisco, California. I told their dad I was moving and presented this to him: we can&#8217;t split our kids down the middle, I can no longer afford to live [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why I hate and like being divorced</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jul 2011 00:24:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim Hess</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We all know why I hate being divorced (Tell me if you can relate): Not having an automatic date to stuff like weddings, vaycays, and dinner after Easter church service. Not having sex on demand (without the use of the internet or batteries) Not worrying if the guy you&#8217;re with will still think you&#8217;re once [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Cornholing on the 4th of July</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2011 18:16:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim Hess</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Happy Fireworks and the 4th! I&#8217;ve officially been in my hometown of Mansfield Ohio for  a little over a week now after deciding to move from my home of 9 years in San Francisco.  It&#8217;s amazing what support, peace and insight you gain from making the decision to change your life and be happy. So [...]]]></description>
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