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Life after divorce

Why am I so happy about this shopping cart?

by Kim Hess on July 3, 2011

Why am I so happy about grocery store shopping carts? Because I can push the grocery store shopping cart to a car.  Get in my car, drive home, and put my groceries away. This may not seem like a big deal to you, but it is a great source of happiness to me! After living [...]

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I lost everything after divorce

by Kim Hess on June 29, 2011

Sometimes you’ve got to lose it all in order to have it all. -Raquel Eatmon I’ve decided to lose it all.  I decided to lose my best friend, my marriage, my  nuclear “All-American” family, my city apartment with a view, my cool hip friends and lovers, my art museums and $15 salads. I’ve also decided [...]

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*Today’s Guest Post by Rosalind Sedacca, CCT of  www.childcentereddivorce.com. After exploring divorce in America and other countries around the world it’s not hard to come to one conclusion. It is not divorce per se that emotionally scars children. It is the parents approach to divorce that determines the positive or negative impact on the kids. The [...]

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I only want to get married twice

by Kim Hess on April 18, 2011

“i only want 2 get Married 1 time” I was having a Twitter conversation with my favorite hip hop on-air personality @DJBKnockin when he tweeted me that he only wanted to get married once.  If I had a dime for every time someone said this I’d have a sweet pair of Manolo’s sitting in my closet!  [...]

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Divorcing and what to do with the wedding ring?

by Kim Hess on March 28, 2011

You’re married.  Now you’re divorced.  What the heck do you do with the ring? Today’s post is written by Mara from I Do Now I Don’t.  When I first heard about this website and it’s concept I thought, “Genius!”  How many of us have wondered what to do with our rings after divorce?  You don’t [...]

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Life After Divorce: The Holiday Edition

by Kim Hess on December 27, 2010

No one really contemplates what their life will be like after divorce.  One doesn’t think about family barbeque’s (minus one), or birthday parties, or how you’ll feel over the holiday season which goes through the changing of three month names (for those who need help that would be November, December, and January!).  Life after divorce [...]

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Life after divorce…it is possible

by Kim Hess on June 18, 2010

I am gearing up to launch the fabulous new book that Mike the MasterDater and I have been working on forever! It’s being edited and now the marketing is starting up. With the marketing, I came across many articles that state that there is life after divorce. Me, being a Divorce Guru, and a strong [...]

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Why Nicki Minaj is my new favorite Barbie

by Kim Hess on June 4, 2010

Figured it was about time to hip you all to my new role model. No, it’s not Michelle Obama, or Oprah Winfrey, Lisa Ling or some other notable woman who is eloquent, sophisticated, and mature. I do love these women, but there’s a new girl in town. No, my new role model is…wait for it…Nicki [...]

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I deserve the best…and so do you

by Kim Hess on April 19, 2010

I was walking home from dropping my boys off at their bus stop to go to school. With no one around to be strong for, the tears started flowing. Interestingly, the tears really let go from behind the dam (damn) that I’ve had them blocked behind all week when I passed a spiritual yoga center. [...]

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Awaken to your Soul Purpose

by Kim Hess on March 12, 2010

Upon my transformation of moving from BEING Kim Hess Divorce Guru to wonderfully being just happy, healthy Kim Hess, I remembered the interview I did on Divorce Guru Radio show with Beverlee Garb. Listen to this amazing interview to start to transform and change your life. Also, go to Beverlee’s site to awaken to the [...]

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