and all around awesome guy, has graciously agreed to be a guest blogger for Kim Hess Divorce Guru!.
Read his post “Why do men cheat? Why are women such bitches??“
When you read the post, you probably get the impression that he is a raving lunatic who
is going off on a rant about how Tiger Woods and other men are getting the short end of the stick when it comes to the game of cheating on a spouse. Your impression is partly correct…he’s not always a raving lunatic! But Mike states some excellent points and I’m here to back him up on it…well, on most of it!
Mike: Do men cheat more?
KHDG: Gotta agree with Mike on this more, men do NOT cheat more. They are just stupid and get caught more!
Mike: Why are men perceived as dogs?
KHDG: Uh, because they are?
Mike: If a man’s wife cheats he keeps it to himself
KHDG: Darn tootin’, because he’s ashamed and embarrassed that his wife “got penetrated by another man” (Mike’s words not mine! One word that rules men, their emotion and behavior: EGO.
Mike: If a woman’s husband cheats she tells the world.
KHDG: Of course she does! She wants the world to perceive him as a dog! (see above)
Mike: Tiger’s wife f*#kin’ knew!
KHDG: Yeah she knew! When my ex was seeing other women I knew. But I kept quiet for awhile. I loved my husband and the family unit we had. I also wasn’t willing to jeopardize my lifestyle…granted I wasn’t married to a multi-millionaire celebrity, but my life was nice and I was well taken care of. Now imagine being “taken care of” with millions, and millions, and millions of dollars, fame, celebrity, privilege, millions and millions…oh I already said that. So yeah Tiger’s wife knew. She loved her husband and their family and she dealt with it as long as she could. Wouldn’t you?
Mike: Was Tiger right?
KHDG: No. Don’t give that crap about having women throw themselves at you because of your fame and millions. What they didn’t do that before he got married. If he couldn’t resist the cookies, he shouldn’t have put himself on a diet!
Mike: Does Tiger’s behavior reflect men in general?
KHDG: Nah, it reflects that he’s human, just like the rest of us, me included (see yesterday’s post)
Mike: The person f*%king the married man or woman should not be held accountable for their actions??? The women Tiger slept with are not responsible as well?
KHDG: Yeah, we are all responsible for our own actions. When you’re “dating” a married guy, you know he’s married. Be honest with yourself. Like me.
Mike: Who is more responsible for Tiger cheating?
KHDG: Duh, Tiger Woods is responsible for Tiger Woods cheating. We all need to take responsibility for our actions and our lives.
Stay tuned to more of the musings of Mike the Master Dater and Kim Hess Divorce Guru rants and raves!
