I’m so glad I saw your name on the web.I’m troubled and I don’t know who to turn to to ask advice on my problem.My husband for 6 yrs was planning to go back to our native country to spend time with his children from his previous marriage.He didn’t see them for 9 years & he felt he wasted so many years for not spending time with them.He felt he abandoned them & he is afraid that his kids is already mad at him because he didn’t do anything to bring them here.Although he is the one supporting the kids his ex wife was the one who frequently spend time with them because she can pay them a visist every year because she has the means.His kids lives with his eldest brother since the time he left our country.His wife has her own family & she is not doing any move to take the kids with her.I’m troubled because I don’t know if i’m being selfish coz If my husband decides to live there I don’t plan of going with him.I just felt that hechose to be with them instead to be with me.And if he decides to go home,he is not coming back.I don’t know what to do .Pls help me.