Comments on: Was it a younger woman? http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/was-it-a-younger-woman/ dating after divorce, dating advice, relationship advice Fri, 10 Feb 2012 09:01:53 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Penis Health Facts http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/was-it-a-younger-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-22522 Penis Health Facts Thu, 09 Feb 2012 10:21:03 +0000 http://kimhess.com/?p=606#comment-22522 When I initially commented I clicked the "Notify me when new comments are added" checkbox and now each time a comment is added I get four e-mails with the same comment. Is there any way you can remove me from that service? Thank you! When I initially commented I clicked the “Notify me when new comments are added” checkbox and now each time a comment is added I get four e-mails with the same comment. Is there any way you can remove me from that service? Thank you!

]]> By: Divorce, Women, and Success Series: Lynnda Ell http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/was-it-a-younger-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-15102 Divorce, Women, and Success Series: Lynnda Ell Fri, 16 Jul 2010 05:49:07 +0000 http://kimhess.com/?p=606#comment-15102 [...] kill my husband. Thankfully, God did neither; instead, my husband abandoned me for a woman just a few years older than our oldest [...] [...] kill my husband. Thankfully, God did neither; instead, my husband abandoned me for a woman just a few years older than our oldest [...]

]]> By: Spearing http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/was-it-a-younger-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-9857 Spearing Fri, 11 Jun 2010 08:39:46 +0000 http://kimhess.com/?p=606#comment-9857 This can be one of the most powerful intelligences I ever encountered in a long time, I'm talking about this component of your article "<i>... divorced woman need the justification of the other woman being hot! I also think we&#8217re living ...</i>" this is it, you just smashed it down buddy. This can be one of the most powerful intelligences I ever encountered in a long time, I’m talking about this component of your article “… divorced woman need the justification of the other woman being hot! I also think we&#8217re living …” this is it, you just smashed it down buddy.

]]> By: Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/was-it-a-younger-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-106 Kim Hess Tue, 26 Jan 2010 20:27:25 +0000 http://kimhess.com/?p=606#comment-106 Amen to that Tina T! You hit the nail on the head! I admit, my ex found someone to feed his ego, and make him feel better about himself. And thank God she did, or that would still be my "job" today! I like my new job better..helping myself and others know get rid of insecurity and LOVE the life that they lead. Awesome insights Tina T, thanks! Amen to that Tina T! You hit the nail on the head! I admit, my ex found someone to feed his ego, and make him feel better about himself. And thank God she did, or that would still be my “job” today! I like my new job better..helping myself and others know get rid of insecurity and LOVE the life that they lead. Awesome insights Tina T, thanks!

]]> By: Tina T http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/was-it-a-younger-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-105 Tina T Tue, 26 Jan 2010 20:10:28 +0000 http://kimhess.com/?p=606#comment-105 The fact that anyone would ask this question shows just how misguided they are. Men don't really cheat to find someone younger or hotter, they cheat to make themselves feel better. This could be in the form of a younger women, but it could also just be a woman who really knows how to feed his ego (gag). Anyway, getting rid of that insecurity needs to come from within, not from someone else, which is probably why these men keep cheating. The fact that anyone would ask this question shows just how misguided they are. Men don’t really cheat to find someone younger or hotter, they cheat to make themselves feel better. This could be in the form of a younger women, but it could also just be a woman who really knows how to feed his ego (gag). Anyway, getting rid of that insecurity needs to come from within, not from someone else, which is probably why these men keep cheating.

]]> By: Mikalee http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/was-it-a-younger-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-94 Mikalee Sat, 23 Jan 2010 01:36:12 +0000 http://kimhess.com/?p=606#comment-94 Parallel lives indeed! 1. I used to be in radio -- though I was a top-40 dj; 2. I also have always refered to myself as the Jennifer Anniston to the ex's new wife's Angelina; 3. I have two children (10 and 7) with 50/50 joint custody; 4. I also had the "perfect" marriage (until the realization that he was in love with someone else. Oops. Maybe not so perfect); 5. I too delved into the world of online dating -- and wrote a magazine article for a local regional lifestyle pub about the good, bad and ugly of it all (the "ugly" includes a man who admitted a fettish for women who "go green" ... which turned out to not mean becoming eco-friendly, but rather that he wanted to paint me green like the alien in the new Star Trek movie. And btw, my favorite screen name -- in response to your "blackmeatbythepound" -- was "suckit4u2." Nice...); 6. I too am a writer who is starting a blog about divorce -- and future author -- and that's how I came across your website! So, Kim, I believe you are my bizarro. Or my sister from another mother. Or something is connecting our karmas in a very strange way. Regardless, I'm glad to meet you! ;) Parallel lives indeed! 1. I used to be in radio — though I was a top-40 dj; 2. I also have always refered to myself as the Jennifer Anniston to the ex’s new wife’s Angelina; 3. I have two children (10 and 7) with 50/50 joint custody; 4. I also had the “perfect” marriage (until the realization that he was in love with someone else. Oops. Maybe not so perfect); 5. I too delved into the world of online dating — and wrote a magazine article for a local regional lifestyle pub about the good, bad and ugly of it all (the “ugly” includes a man who admitted a fettish for women who “go green” … which turned out to not mean becoming eco-friendly, but rather that he wanted to paint me green like the alien in the new Star Trek movie. And btw, my favorite screen name — in response to your “blackmeatbythepound” — was “suckit4u2.” Nice…); 6. I too am a writer who is starting a blog about divorce — and future author — and that’s how I came across your website!

So, Kim, I believe you are my bizarro. Or my sister from another mother. Or something is connecting our karmas in a very strange way. Regardless, I’m glad to meet you! ;)

]]> By: Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/was-it-a-younger-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-92 Kim Hess Thu, 21 Jan 2010 21:37:25 +0000 http://kimhess.com/?p=606#comment-92 Mikalee what a great observation! You are so right about do you as a recently divorced woman need the justification of the other woman being hot! I also think we're living parallel lives! i too think I'm hot in a divorced 36 in 4 months single mom kinda way, the "other woman' is not hot, and i think my ex may also have a brain tumor (that would explain a lot!!) Mikalee what a great observation! You are so right about do you as a recently divorced woman need the justification of the other woman being hot!

I also think we’re living parallel lives! i too think I’m hot in a divorced 36 in 4 months single mom kinda way, the “other woman’ is not hot, and i think my ex may also have a brain tumor (that would explain a lot!!)

]]> By: Mikalee http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/was-it-a-younger-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-90 Mikalee Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:54:34 +0000 http://kimhess.com/?p=606#comment-90 I love it, Kim. Because I often lament something similar: The question "So is she hot?" (referring to the "other woman," of course). What does it matter if she is? Does it make it better? Easier? I consider myself kinda hot (in a divorced-36-year-old-single-mom-kinda-way ...), but this question always makes me cringe. I know people are looking for answers to the "why" question, but really? Do I, a recently divorced woman, really need to feel he was justified if she was, indeed, hot???? Truth be told, the "other woman" in my situation is not hot. Nor is she younger (well, not much...). So people leave a conversation with me with no resolution at all...except perhaps confirmation for the brain tumor I suspect my ex has! :) I love it, Kim. Because I often lament something similar: The question “So is she hot?” (referring to the “other woman,” of course). What does it matter if she is? Does it make it better? Easier? I consider myself kinda hot (in a divorced-36-year-old-single-mom-kinda-way …), but this question always makes me cringe. I know people are looking for answers to the “why” question, but really? Do I, a recently divorced woman, really need to feel he was justified if she was, indeed, hot????

Truth be told, the “other woman” in my situation is not hot. Nor is she younger (well, not much…). So people leave a conversation with me with no resolution at all…except perhaps confirmation for the brain tumor I suspect my ex has! :)

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