Need some dating after divorce advice? You’ve come to the right place! Your girl Kim, aka Divorce Guru, aka KFoxx (like that huh?) is here to give you some much needed advice. Let’s begin.
Don’t date until your divorce is final:
Dating right away seems like a good idea right? You and soon to be ex hubby have filed the papers, decided it’s over and are getting ready to go your separate ways. Or are you? My recommendation is to wait until the divorce is final. Or at least until a year is up.
Get cha flirt on:
Now that you’ve worked on you, it’s time to start flirting. But hold up, do you even remember or know how to flirt? You’ve been married and most likely have not flirted on a regular basis (which is too bad, because who says once you get married/committed the flirting has to stop?)
What would dating after divorce advice be without a few tips on flirting? Some of us ladies are born flirting divas. Some of us need to fake it. Whether you love to flirt (as your Divorce Guru loves to do!) or whether it seems awkward and unnatural to you-you gotta do it! It’s fun and men dig it.
Some good ones to use on your dates include holding eye contact for a few seconds then turning your eyes away. Do it again this time with a slight smile. Get’s em everytime. Another favorite of mine is the light touch on the arm when he says something funny. Easy peasy. He says something funny, you laugh and lightly touch him on the arm(keep it to the arm, don’t wanna wave your freak flag too early!) Makes him feel masculine, and the gentle touch of a woman has never repulsed a man. Well unless you’re repulsive or he’s gay and dislikes women.
No sex on the first date:
I know, I know this dating after divorce advice appears to suck, but it won’t suck as bad as you givin’ up the goods after spending a few hours with some guy and then him never calling back. Yeah, there are exceptions, but why risk the heartache associated with feeling used? Oh you wanna use him? I stand by my advice. Wait for the second date.
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