KimHess' Divorce Guru

KimHess' Divorce Guru http://www.kimhess.com Your Divorce Guru for happiness after divorce & dating after divorce advice Mon, 30 Apr 2012 11:00:09 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Life after Divorce: Courage is the word of the day http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/life-after-divorce-courage-is-the-word-of-the-day/ http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/life-after-divorce-courage-is-the-word-of-the-day/#comments Mon, 30 Apr 2012 11:00:09 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=5140

]]> http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/life-after-divorce-courage-is-the-word-of-the-day/feed/ 0 Dating after Divorce Advice: Just cuz he’s nice to you doesn’t mean he’s the one http://www.kimhess.com/dating-advice-after-divorce/dating-after-divorce-advice-just-cuz-hes-nice-to-you-doesnt-mean-hes-the-one/ http://www.kimhess.com/dating-advice-after-divorce/dating-after-divorce-advice-just-cuz-hes-nice-to-you-doesnt-mean-hes-the-one/#comments Wed, 25 Apr 2012 01:29:32 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=5137 I’ve been finding clients telling me “Kim, he was so nice, I thought he really liked me. I thought he could be the one.” This is after they’ve had sex with them and he hasn’t called them in 2 weeks. I have to gently, and calmly let them know that: he was nice, he did probably like you for that moment he wasn’t the one, and he was just trying to ... Related posts:

]]> http://www.kimhess.com/dating-advice-after-divorce/dating-after-divorce-advice-just-cuz-hes-nice-to-you-doesnt-mean-hes-the-one/feed/ 0 Thank you Whitney Houston. It’s not right, but it’s okay.RIP http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/thankyouwhitneyhouston/ http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/thankyouwhitneyhouston/#comments Mon, 13 Feb 2012 01:28:14 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=1915 Thanks Whitney, for telling us that although its not right, that we’ll eventually be okay. That we’re gonna make it anyway. Remember this song ... Related posts:

]]> http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/thankyouwhitneyhouston/feed/ 1 Don’t let him bother you http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/dont-let-him-bother-you/ http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/dont-let-him-bother-you/#comments Thu, 26 Jan 2012 11:18:17 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=1912 “Why do you let him bother you? As inconsequential as a fly, just swat him away-flies eventually go away, eventually dying, when conditions become inhospitable.”

]]> http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/dont-let-him-bother-you/feed/ 6 You’re not missing anything out there http://www.kimhess.com/dating-advice-after-divorce/youre-not-missing-anything-out-there/ http://www.kimhess.com/dating-advice-after-divorce/youre-not-missing-anything-out-there/#comments Wed, 25 Jan 2012 11:15:44 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=1910 Love will find you when he’s ready.
And more importantly when you’re ready.

]]> http://www.kimhess.com/dating-advice-after-divorce/youre-not-missing-anything-out-there/feed/ 6 Heidi Klum,Seal, and Kenny G divorce-it’s a sad, sad day http://www.kimhess.com/celebrity-divorces/1906/ http://www.kimhess.com/celebrity-divorces/1906/#comments Sun, 22 Jan 2012 17:25:08 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=1906 First I find out that Heidi Klum and Seal are getting divorced. Damn.
Then, it is revealed to me that Kenny G and his wife are calling it quits. Dayum!!
How much divorce can one Divorce Guru take in one day? (Technically lots, but that’s not the point here. Dramatic effect.)
I don’t know why these couples are getting divorced but it’s always sad to know that the love is no longer there ... Related posts:

Go on, take the money and run…(after divorce!)

]]> http://www.kimhess.com/celebrity-divorces/1906/feed/ 1 Stop trying to replace love http://www.kimhess.com/life-after-divorce/stop-trying-to-replace-love/ http://www.kimhess.com/life-after-divorce/stop-trying-to-replace-love/#comments Thu, 19 Jan 2012 13:36:09 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=1902 Stop trying to replace love.
Those guys you’re sleeping with? You’re not sexually free, just starved for attention.
And love.
You’re better than that. Stop trying to replace love and figure out how to love yourself.

Related posts:Divorce Guru gets relationship coach to help her pathetic love life!
Stop looking for the one after divorce…you’ve already got her/him
Related posts:

]]> http://www.kimhess.com/life-after-divorce/stop-trying-to-replace-love/feed/ 3 You need to move on if… http://www.kimhess.com/life-after-divorce/you-need-to-move-on-if/ http://www.kimhess.com/life-after-divorce/you-need-to-move-on-if/#comments Wed, 18 Jan 2012 11:00:54 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=1896 You need to move on especially if you have little kids. Especially if you want to be happy. Especially if you want to live a good life…a better life.
It is better for both you and your ex to start dating and socializing with other people rather than hating each other. This way, healing will be fast and easy. Well, not fast and easy but…better than hate.
Right?

Related posts:Move On ... Related posts:

]]> http://www.kimhess.com/life-after-divorce/you-need-to-move-on-if/feed/ 9 Whatever the cause of your divorce, you can get through it http://www.kimhess.com/life-after-divorce/whatever-the-cause-of-your-divorce/ http://www.kimhess.com/life-after-divorce/whatever-the-cause-of-your-divorce/#comments Wed, 18 Jan 2012 01:26:46 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=1889 These days, divorce is as common as marriage. You hear about someone getting married one day, you hear about someone getting divorced the next day. Usually not the same marriage. Unless you’re Kim Kardashian. (Sorry, couldn’t resist, I do love me some Kim K,but she was married for like 2 days!)
Yet, with all of these ending of marriages, the causes of divorce is as diverse as a San Francisco alternative school during a Winter Solstice celebration: she cheated ...]]> http://www.kimhess.com/life-after-divorce/whatever-the-cause-of-your-divorce/feed/ 10 Your Ex wants the best for you http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/your-ex-wants-the-best-for-you/ http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/your-ex-wants-the-best-for-you/#comments Thu, 12 Jan 2012 11:05:10 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=1904 What if he was truly happy that you’re making more money, found a good guy and lost 10 pounds from eating salads at lunch instead of Philly cheesesteaks?
Would your feelings about him and your divorce/breakup change for the better?
Let’s just pretend that he does want the very best for you then!

]]> http://www.kimhess.com/coping-with-divorce/your-ex-wants-the-best-for-you/feed/ 2