Trouble letting go?

November 10, 2009

Coming Soon: Beverlee Garb, author, speaker, coach will be making a guest appearance on “Kim Hess Divorce Guru!“ Are you still having trouble letting go of things from your past in order to move on with your ascension process and finding your life purpose? Are conflicts still presenting themselves in the old way? My advice [...]

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Super Secret Private Divorce Blog: Why the hell am I dating?

November 6, 2009

Hello fellow divorced people, married people, single people, lovers, fans, haters, and seemingly enemies! Your Divorce Guru is finally asking the question that I’ve been avoiding since I brushed myself off from the perils of married life and entered my new status of single woman: why the hell am I dating? I’m finally deciding to [...]

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Loneliest during marriage or divorce?

November 4, 2009

“An emptiness when you realize that the loneliest you’ve ever been is within a marriage…” from The Bride Stripped Bare, Anonymous This particular line from this book really spoke to me. I realized that yes, the loneliest times I’ve ever had have been within my marriage. Yes, I’ve been lonely since I’ve been divorced but [...]

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Super Secret Private Divorce Blog: My Ex-Husband doesn’t hate me anymore!

October 26, 2009

Ah, dear readers, where shall I start? You say start at the beginning but keep it snappy? Okay, as you wish. Scene 1:Had a parent teacher conference today. Instead of going separately as we usually do we sat side by side, like parents do, and heard about the progress of our youngest son in school. [...]

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Goddess of Fun Abiola Abrams on LoveDetour.com the Radio Show!

October 23, 2009

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Kim Hess Divorce Guru takes a turn for the…BEST!

October 22, 2009

Today I am offering you dear reader peace, compassion, and love. I recently went to a seminar given by my rockin’ guru Dattatreya Siva Baba who told a funny story about Jesus. Here goes: A blind man comes to Jesus and says: “Jesus can you heal me and make me see?” Jesus heals the man [...]

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Go on, take the money and run…(after divorce!)

October 21, 2009

I can not get this song out of my head! What song? The Steve Miller Band’s “Take the Money and Run.” Why? Because I believe it’s a sign to let all the soon to be divorced people out there to “take the money and run!” Some of you, don’t ask me why, don’t want any [...]

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Luvem or LeavEm? Marriage or Divorce?

October 20, 2009

I am happy to announce to all my fans out there (hi mom!) that there is yet another place where you can get advice from “Kim Hess Divorce Guru!”) Tina Tobin, founder of the awesome website LuvemORLeavem has asked me to become an expert on her video series! Check out videos from her experts on [...]

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Life is like a box of…wind

October 7, 2009

I had coffee with a new friend this morning. Well, he had hot chocolate, I had a grande soy chai latte w/ extra foam. (Thanks HL for the drink, I know it was hard to memorize such a high maintenance order!) He gave me a great piece of wisdom that I must share with you. [...]

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Miss me? Yeah, I know divorce is tuff

October 6, 2009

Hello dear reader, have you missed me? I know I have missed you too. Much drama in your Divorce Guru’s life, but very well handled and a learning experience. Here are some conclusions I have come up with in the days I’ve been M.I.A. * Why be bitter about my ex husbands now girlfriend who [...]

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