Divorced and takin\’ out da trash

September 10, 2009

I had to take out the trash today. It was full, it was stinky, and it was time. So why did I pause and hesitate about taking out this trash? Because, me, like you and millions of others out there who have loved at one time, like to cling, hold onto, possess, and keep things [...]

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Live Spontaneously after divorce

September 9, 2009

This guru is now dead, but when he lived, he lived spontaneously. When I was married I didn’t live spontaeously. Now that I’m divorced, I do. And I love it. Why don’t you try to live oned day in a spontaneous way? Allow good things to just happen. Eat cheesecake, smile at a baby, help [...]

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Sex, Intimacy, and Divorce

August 31, 2009

There is a new show on Energy Talk Radio which is called “Love, Sex, and Spirit.” The show is hosted by the fabulous duo of Kypris and Dr. Steven Jay who are the co-founders of n international-internet based love and intimacy school YabYummy.com. Some of you may be scoffing at the idea of a school [...]

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Listen to Divorce Guru on your iPhone!

August 25, 2009

Talk Radio – iPhone – How to Listen to Internet Radio Wow, now you can listen to “Kim Hess Divorce Guru” on your iPhone! And after that listen to me and my co-host Sunny Wang (founder of Love Detour) on the “Love Detour.com Radio Show!”. The fun just never stops with Kim Hess.

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Divorced and droppin it like it’s hot

August 24, 2009

My sons and I were listening to the radio when a hip hop song came on encouraging women to “drop it down low.” My youngest son started dancing and telling me “C’mon mommy, drop it down low, he’s rapping about you!” While I proceeded to tell my son that mommy’s days of “droppin it down [...]

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Ask the Divorce Guru

August 20, 2009

Should husband support kid that’s not biologically his after divorce? Read more…

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Dear Divorce Guru: WHIP DAT THANG ON ME SOME N GOOD

August 19, 2009

I interviewed Dating Coach Annie Gleason this week on my radio show “Kim Hess Divorce Guru“. She gave me and my listeners great advice, some of it being about online dating. Annie told me to get a love life. She suggested Match.com. Okay, I tried it. Check out my very first response: **** im single [...]

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Is divorce bad? We’ll see…

August 18, 2009

I read this story on my radio show “Kim Hess Divorce Guru” yesterday to demonstrate that sometimes something we judge as “bad” may not necessarily be so: There is a Taoist story of an old farmer who had worked his crops for many years. One day his horse ran away. Upon hearing the news, his [...]

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Respect the Puss

August 17, 2009

I had a very insightful conversation with a member of my support group “Divorce Guru Meetup.” We were talking about dating and relationships particularly after divorce. He was telling me what women don’t understand is that they need to respect the puss. I choked on my drink and said “Whaaat? Did you say what I [...]

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Divorce Guru gets to Interview a Lesbian!

August 14, 2009

LoveDetour.com Radio Show:Interview with a Lesbian Click here to listen to our interview on EnergyTalkRadio.com

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