Penis cakes, divorce, and other topics I talk about on the radio

August 13, 2009

Have you listened to my shows on Energy Talk Radio yet? Imagine my surprise, leave a jerky husband, gain TWO wildly popular radio shows! Now that’s a great exchange! I almost feel sorry for my ex’s girlfriend in what she got in this exchange…almost!” I’ve compiled a list of just a few things that Kim [...]

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I Am Divorced and I Am Angry

July 31, 2009

See you next Tuesday. A friend said this to me in reference to my soon to be ex-husband’s girlfriend. We used to refer to her as the “black hole.” Her new name is “See you next Tuesday.” Get it? C. U.N….Tuesday? Why am I writing about this and calling this woman these vulgar names? Because [...]

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Divorce and the other woman

July 28, 2009

“I don’t know why they have to go to that expensive private school. I went to a normal school, got a job, and I work. Why do they need to know about Monet, Seurat, and have a laptop in the 5th grade?” He is silent, letting his boys suffer because of his lonliness. “I think [...]

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Divorce, scooters, sunshine, and hot dogs

July 25, 2009

As I was walking to the store today I realized how wonderful my life is. My boys were zipping around on their scooters with me walking behind them to, making sure they didn’t run over anyone who was in their way. It was a beautiful day in San Francisco, warm, with sunshine and was reveling [...]

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Divorced on a Saturday night

July 23, 2009

The bouncer checks our i.d.’s and smiles at me, my date’s hands on the small of my back leading me into the dark club with the glowing red lights. We are suddenly surrounded by loud music, and the smell of sweat and alcohol. We do shots of smooth tequila, pausing to let the warmth of [...]

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Love and loss after divorce

July 22, 2009

I sit at my kitchen table, trying to concentrate on replying to emails. Emails asking for my time, my energy, my love. My heart first goes to you then your facebook page. In the light blue t-shirt you gave me and nothing else, I pick up my phone and type in your name to dial [...]

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Crush

July 17, 2009

As she sat in the small room, she wondered if her dress was too short to have worn today. It was linen, did it shrink in the wash, was she appearing too risque? She looked at his hands on his knees, his short clean nails, noticed their knees barely touching. No words were spoken as [...]

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Court Room

July 12, 2009

She is sitting in the court room trying hard to listen to the judge explain that this was the last hope of solving the conflicts of divorce before would a divorce trial. She didn’t want the judge deciding anything else for her divorce…her power had already been minimized to almost nothing. She looks at her [...]

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Divorce Guru comments on the Condom Conflict

July 11, 2009

Click here to read the blog entry: Condom Conflict by Moxie in the City Thom, I feel your pain. I am divorced after being with the same man (dating and marriage) for 12 years. I’m now 35 and out in the dating world again. When I started having sex again, I too didn’t want to [...]

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What she didn’t know: divorce freedom

July 7, 2009

Sitting amongst intelligent, loving, humorous people, she’s is craving a cup of coffee but too comfortable to get up and get it. Gazing at the statue of Ganesha to her right, she feels completely satisfied and happy with her satisfying lunch of chicken salad in her belly. Thinking back to the conversation she had last [...]

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