How to prevent relationship drama

July 30, 2011

When you have relationships after divorce, it either goes smoothly or it doesn’t.  It usually doesn’t. When there is drama in a romantic relationship it’s most often caused by insecurity. Are you constantly wondering what your guy is doing, who he’s with, why he hasn’t called, and when you will see him again?  Don’t lie, [...]

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There’s nothing wrong with you: dating after divorce advice

July 22, 2011

This is what I’ve heard from women around the world about what is wrong with them and why dating after divorce will never work for them: I’m too fat I have kids I have stretch marks No one’s going to want a woman in her 50′s No one’s going to want a woman in her [...]

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Be patient girl, be patient!

July 19, 2011

I talked to one of my clients today.  Always a good time. She’s dating multiple men at a time, just like Mama Kim taught her.  One of her guys has called every single day since they went out. Except yesterday.  My client, hereby known as “Beth” was pissed off. Beth told me she couldn’t believe [...]

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Dating men for money

July 14, 2011

I have a family member.  Let’s call her Tammy. Tammy is a single mother, has a good profession as a nurse and is 30. Tammy is also adamant that the next man she “get with” have money. She is dating men for money.  And it’s not right. When you ask her what she wants in [...]

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How to get a man to love you (or shot of whiskey no chaser)

July 13, 2011

Hola! I was reading this article about networking and the author simply wrote not to chase business.  If someone’s chasing, that means someone is running away. How perfect is that not only for business but for LOVE! How do you get a man to love you?  Don’t chase him! If you’re chasing him–calling him every [...]

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What are you good at after divorce

July 12, 2011

My sister told me that one of her friends called me a ham and a riot to hang out with. I was introduced to my Dad’s friend as the “outgoing” one (my little sis was described as the “diva”-she is awfully fly!) The guy I’m kinda dating says I overwhelm him-but in a good way. [...]

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Dating with kids-it’s all good.

July 11, 2011

When I made the humongous decision to move back to Ohio I also made the humongous decision to have my kids remain in school in San Francisco, California. I told their dad I was moving and presented this to him: we can’t split our kids down the middle, I can no longer afford to live [...]

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Why I hate and like being divorced

July 8, 2011

We all know why I hate being divorced (Tell me if you can relate): Not having an automatic date to stuff like weddings, vaycays, and dinner after Easter church service. Not having sex on demand (without the use of the internet or batteries) Not worrying if the guy you’re with will still think you’re once [...]

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Be a Dating Diva not a Dating Don’t

July 7, 2011

I was with a friend on a Saturday night when her phone’s text message went off at 1:41 am. “Who is it?”  I’m nosy. “Ahh, just Marcus*” she said, looking at her cell phone. “Uh, why is he calling you at almost two in the morning?” I asked her, even though I clearly already knew [...]

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Wrong move Arnold Schwarzenegger, wrong move

July 6, 2011

I was looking up information about the Maria Shriver, Arnold Schwarzenegger divorce for my National Examiner column (read it, it’s chock full of goodness) when I happened upon Schwarzenegger’s official website. Go ahead and look at it.  Look at it! Dude, Arnie, my former Governator!  What the hell?  You cheat on your wife then have [...]

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