Is it okay to ask a man out on a date?

April 25, 2011

A lot of women who are never married or divorced ask me this question:  “Is it okay to ask a man out on a date?” I promptly reply, “Nope.” I’ve heard all the arguments in favor of asking a man out including: he’s shy he’s not asking me out because he’s intimidated by me I [...]

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Grieve your divorce then move on

April 20, 2011

I got this message today from Beverlee Garb’s Sole Purpose Community: Grief is the final stages of letting go. Whether it is a physical death, the death of a belief system, the death of a younger version of yourself or the death of a career, the only way to truly let it go is to grieve [...]

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I only want to get married twice

April 18, 2011

“i only want 2 get Married 1 time” I was having a Twitter conversation with my favorite hip hop on-air personality @DJBKnockin when he tweeted me that he only wanted to get married once.  If I had a dime for every time someone said this I’d have a sweet pair of Manolo’s sitting in my closet!  [...]

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Day in the life: Christmas Ho and New Year’s Eve

April 10, 2011

Note:  This is an oldie but goodie from a blog written in 2008.  Enjoy! Day in the life of a Divorce Diva: You encourage your kids to call their father on his birthday which is Christmas Eve. You’re feeling in the Christmas spirit, life is good. Then you are punched in the gut right down [...]

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Life After Divorce-You are Not Alone

March 31, 2011

I decided to write today’s post about life after divorce and feeling alone.  Do you feel like you’re all alone in this world with no one to lean on when times are at their toughest and you are at your lowest?  Remember that you are not alone. I was reading a blog by Mike Robbins, [...]

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Divorcing and what to do with the wedding ring?

March 28, 2011

You’re married.  Now you’re divorced.  What the heck do you do with the ring? Today’s post is written by Mara from I Do Now I Don’t.  When I first heard about this website and it’s concept I thought, “Genius!”  How many of us have wondered what to do with our rings after divorce?  You don’t [...]

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Dating a criminal…good idea? (VIDEO)

March 22, 2011

Check out my latest video for LuvemorLeavem’s Expert Advice Panel. What do you think? Would you date an ex-con? Lonely?  Afraid you’ll never find love and live the rest of your life with your 27 cats?  Afraid you’ll end up with a criminal who is wanted in 15 states and kicks puppy dogs?  Check out [...]

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Dating with Children-It’s a Good Thing!

February 15, 2011

“Hi, my name is Kim, and I am dating with children.” “Hi Kim.” Yes, to all you men out there who want to get to know me better, date me, and eventually love me I first must stand up and declare my situation.  A situation that ain’t never gonna change. I am dating, and I [...]

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Dating with children…the do’s, don’ts, and don’t even think about it girl!

February 1, 2011

Dating with children can be tricky.  I mean, sometimes your date will balk at having to buy 4 tickets to the symphony instead of just 2 because your 2 boys just can’t  go another day without seeing their favorite conductor live in your city on Friday night, since the last time they saw him in Vienna.  Kids, whaddya [...]

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Love After Divorce: is it possible?

January 18, 2011

Is it possible for a woman to find love after divorce? It’s so funny that the majority of women are the ones asking me this question, not my male readers and clients.  For women, it’s usually a question of wanting love so bad and feeling that we are not worthy.  If one marriage/love affair didn’t work [...]

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