by Kim Hess on February 16, 2010
This post is a part of Divorce Guru’s “Divorce, Women, and Success” series. For the next few months I will profile women who have achieved the bulk of their success after divorce to provide you with hope,motivation and inspiration that you too can succeed in life after divorce! These stories will also be featured on [...]
by Kim Hess on February 6, 2010
On my radio show Divorce Guru, I speak about the tendency to isolate oneself in life after divorce or breakup. This is why I advocate that after your heart has been ripped from your heart, you need to build and nurture community. Heck, even if you haven’t been divorced, everyone isolates themselves because it’s easier [...]
by Kim Hess on January 21, 2010
I’m divorced dating…you know, dating while divorced. There are many similarities and many differences to getting back on the horse after divorce and dating while never having been married. Is dating after divorce better or worse? Let me break it down for you. Divorced dating is better. Period. Why? You’ve already been there done that. [...]
by Kim Hess on January 15, 2010
“Was it a younger woman?” This question has haunted me ever since I separated from my ex husband…I’m young, attractive, smart. So it had to be a younger woman, right? I went to a cocktail party last night (thanks B.G.!) which was thrown by a political consulting firm. Everyone at the party had something to [...]
by Kim Hess on January 14, 2010
I know I usually write about fun, and sex (or lack of!) online dating, and sometimes how much my ex gets on my nerves. Well, I haven’t written about my ex getting on my nerves lately because he isn’t. And when he was, it usually had to do with issues that had to deal more [...]
by Kim Hess on January 7, 2010
I’m sure you’ve read or heard about Kate Gosselin’s 20 hour hair extensions by now. If you haven’t I’ll fill you in. Kate Gosselin got married to Jon, had 2 kids, had 6 more (invitro) then got a reality show, Jon & Kate plus 8 (get it 8 kids?). Her and hubby Jon started fighting, [...]
by Kim Hess on January 5, 2010
I just wrote an article for my national divorce column for the Examiner. The title is
by Kim Hess on January 1, 2010
Are you lonely? Whether you have been divorced for twenty years or twenty hours, being lonely comes into your life at times. Sometimes more often than not. I never understood when people spoke of being lonely. When I was married I fondly remembered my single days of living in the college dorms surrounded by friends, [...]
by Kim Hess on December 31, 2009
Are you divorced on New Years Eve 2010? First of all, let’s clear up one thing? Why is it called New Years Eve 2010? Shouldn’t it be called New Years Eve 2009? It is still 2009. It is New Years Eve and it’s 2009. Okay, now that that’s out of the way let me tell [...]
by Kim Hess on December 30, 2009
Dear Tiger Woods, Happy 34th Birthday Tiger! I know it’s been a rough month for you. All your mistresses revealing themselves to the media and your cute wife and mother of your children moving out and hiring a divorce attorney who will surely get her a nice sweeeeet divorce settlement. We all know you have [...]