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and all around awesome guy, has graciously agreed to be a ...
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So many times when people ask us that question we automatically say, “Fine, fine” or “pretty good, how ’bout you?” So your Divorce Guru is ...
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I know a woman. Let’s call her Jill. She thought her husband was gay from the first day she met him. Lots of people told her he was gay from the first day they met him. But Jill didn’t care. He was handsome, smart, and sexy. She pushed the thought of him possibly batting for the other team far, far away. So far away that they dated, moved in together, got ...
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I was on the subway today and saw a piece of paper on the floor with the title: “The Old and the Lonely”. I’m assuming it floated out of a beat up back pack spattered with dirt stains and various alternative rock buttons (perhaps Green Day or Blink 182-are those band still cool?) pinned to its exterior. The paper was standard issue white, 3 ring binder blue lined notebook paper. The title was written in ...
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How exciting! Welcome to the first post for Kim Hess: Your Divorce Guru. Know that you can read this blog for help, healing, and humor when wading through this cess pool we call divorce.
People have asked me my motivation for becoming a Divorce Guru. My answer is easy. To help others. And also, I’ve always wanted a guru. Now I am one! When I started contemplating divorcing my children’s father, I found nothing but scary statistics on how divorce was going to ...
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