Posts Tagged 'dating advice after divorce'

Hello fellow divorced people, married people, single people, lovers, fans, haters, and seemingly enemies! Your Divorce Guru is finally asking the question that I’ve been avoiding since I brushed myself off from the perils of married life and entered my new status of single woman: why the hell am I dating?

I’m finally deciding to be honest with myself…what the heck has dating done for me lately? My first dating experience after divorce led to a nice 3 ...

“An emptiness when you realize that the loneliest you’ve ever been is within a marriage…” from The Bride Stripped Bare, Anonymous

This particular line from this book really spoke to me. I realized that yes, the loneliest times I’ve ever had have been within my marriage. Yes, I’ve been lonely since I’ve been divorced but it has been different. More a relief, almost a choice to be lonely. ...

Ah, dear readers, where shall I start? You say start at the beginning but keep it snappy? Okay, as you wish.

Scene 1:Had a parent teacher conference today. Instead of going separately as we usually do we sat side by side, like parents do, and heard about the progress of our youngest son in school. We left w/out a word to one another but things were cordial.

Scene 2: I’m walking the 11 minute walk to get ...

Sunny Wang, founder of Abiola Abrams!

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Today I am offering you dear reader peace, compassion, and love.

I recently went to a seminar given by my rockin’ guru Dattatreya Siva Baba who told a funny story about Jesus. Here goes:

A blind man comes to Jesus and says: “Jesus can you heal me and make me see?”
Jesus heals the man and the man is grateful. The healed man says “Jesus, thank you so much! What can I do for ...

I can not get this song out of my head! What song? The Steve Miller Band’s “Take the Money and Run.”

Why? Because I believe it’s a sign to let all the soon to be divorced people out there to “take the money and run!”

Some of you, don’t ask me why, don’t want any money from your higher paid spouse for alimony or child support.

I take that back…I do know why. You think your soon to be ...

I am happy to announce to all my fans out there (hi mom!) that there is yet another place where you can get advice from “Kim Hess Divorce Guru!”)

Tina Tobin, founder of the awesome website LuvemORLeavem has asked me to become an expert on her video series! Check out videos from her experts on her site or from the YouTube channel! Enjoy…I know I do!

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I had coffee with a new friend this morning. Well, he had hot chocolate, I had a grande soy chai latte w/ extra foam. (Thanks HL for the drink, I know it was hard to memorize such a high maintenance order!)

He gave me a great piece of wisdom that I must share with you.

He explained that life is like sailing. You set out on a beautiful sunny day ...

Hello dear reader, have you missed me? I know I have missed you too. Much drama in your Divorce Guru’s life, but very well handled and a learning experience.

Here are some conclusions I have come up with in the days I’ve been M.I.A.

* Why be bitter about my ex husbands now girlfriend who he had an affair w/ when we were married? If it ...

““Be the change you want to see in the world.” Mahatma Gandhi quotes (Indian Philosopher, internationally esteemed for his doctrine of nonviolent protest, 1869-1948)

If we want to change the world, we must change something within ourselves first.”
This quote was said by Jo Dunning as she was being interviewed on “Life Without Limitation” hosted by Markendya on ...