I’m divorced dating…you know, dating while divorced. There are many similarities and many differences to getting back on the horse after divorce and dating while never having been married. Is dating after divorce better or worse? Let me break it down for you.
Divorced dating is better. Period. Why? You’ve already been there done that. For me, your Divorce Guru, if I look at my life it’s pretty darn good. Yes, I went through ...
Continue Reading →Hello love, KHDG in tha house! (My sons would cringe if they knew I was using that kind of language in my writings…they have told me I am not cool!) Let’s talk about Prop 8.
It sucks. Mosey on over to my Examiner article which I have titled, “Repeal Prop 8: Let gays marry and divorce like us straights!” I was going to use the title “Let homos marry and divorce like us heteros!” but was ...
Continue Reading →Read Part One of “Divorce Guru gets relationship coach to help her pathetic love life!”
The first thing my relationship coach Suzanne Blake asked me was:
What type of men have you been attracting? My theory of the dating is that of the Law of Attraction. We attract at the level we are at. Women and men can learn a lot about their subconscious feeling and thoughts ...
Continue Reading →I just wrote an article for my national divorce column for the Examiner. The title is BBC reported that a website called BeautifulPeople.com had kicked of about 5,000 members because they had gained weight over the holidays. I must mention that the founder of the website ...
Continue Reading →I admit the title of this post was just to get your attention. My love life isn’t that pathetic. I had 3 dates last week…all with great, handsome, intelligent guys. But no 2nd dates. And I also had a guy with the screen name “BlackMeatByThePound” contact me online. Okay,maybe my love life is just a tad pathetic!
As you may or may not know I have been searching for a good relationship since my divorce. ...
Continue Reading →Are you lonely? Whether you have been divorced for twenty years or twenty hours, being lonely comes into your life at times. Sometimes more often than not.
I never understood when people spoke of being lonely. When I was married I fondly remembered my single days of living in the college dorms surrounded by friends, having so much companionship that I didn’t know what alone time was. Even when I wasn’t in a “relationship” (I ...
Continue Reading →Are you divorced on New Years Eve 2010? First of all, let’s clear up one thing? Why is it called New Years Eve 2010? Shouldn’t it be called New Years Eve 2009? It is still 2009. It is New Years Eve and it’s 2009. Okay, now that that’s out of the way let me tell you some highlights of what your Divorce Guru did today, New Years Eve 2009 soon to be 2010.
The first ...
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I know we haven’t talked in a long time. Well, we have never talked. But I thought it was time to step up and have a woman to man talk with you. I’m Kim Hess ...
Continue Reading →I filed for divorce almost a year ago. Because my ex is a spiteful hating jerk, we are not officially divorced yet. I’m sure once he gets over losing the best thing that ever happened to him, he’ll stop delaying the signing of the divorce papers. But I digress. I felt it was time to move on with my life and start dating. Right off the bat I met a wonderful man. Let’s call him ...
Continue Reading →I was on the subway today and saw a piece of paper on the floor with the title: “The Old and the Lonely”. I’m assuming it floated out of a beat up back pack spattered with dirt stains and various alternative rock buttons (perhaps Green Day or Blink 182-are those band still cool?) pinned to its exterior. The paper was standard issue white, 3 ring binder blue lined notebook paper. The title was written in ...
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