I was reading a posting on Divorce360.com which posed the question, “If you marry again, what will be different?” I admit, the thought of marrying again has crossed my mind. And my canned response is always “If I get married again, my husband will live next door…or on the other side of the country!” That was me using humor to deflect any pain I have to think about in regards to being married again. ...
Continue Reading →Heard about Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie possibly splitting?
The News of the World, a British publication (trashy tabloid!) came out a few days ago saying that Brangelina were splitting up. Angie supposedly was to live with the kids and Brad was going to live next door. I read it, and the news came as no shock. I’m a Divorce Guru for heaven’s sake! People splitting up, whether they’re married or not, is ...
Continue Reading →I’m thinking about getting out of the dating game. Yeah, yeah, I know what you’re thinking: How can someone who averages 4-5 dates a month possibly contemplate getting out of the dating game? Easy. Dating sucks. Which is why I will impart some wise Divorce Guru dating tipsfor those of you who know it sucks, but are hopeful that you will find your 2nd, or 3rd, or 5th true love after your 1st, 2nd, or 4th divorce!
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Continue Reading →Hello friends! How is dating like a hotel room? Let me tell you…
First, let’s start by talking about my divorce. It was bad. I felt rejected, alone, and sad. Though I initiated it, divorce was the last thing I wanted. What I wanted was my old marriage back…happy, loving, friendly. Since that was not going to happen (2 years of unsuccessfully trying to work it out and marriage counseling led me believe this…at ...
Continue Reading →I’m divorced dating…you know, dating while divorced. There are many similarities and many differences to getting back on the horse after divorce and dating while never having been married. Is dating after divorce better or worse? Let me break it down for you.
Divorced dating is better. Period. Why? You’ve already been there done that. For me, your Divorce Guru, if I look at my life it’s pretty darn good. Yes, I went through ...
Continue Reading →“Was it a younger woman?” This question has haunted me ever since I separated from my ex husband…I’m young, attractive, smart. So it had to be a younger woman, right?
I went to a cocktail party last night (thanks B.G.!) which was thrown by a political consulting firm. Everyone at the party had something to do with politics, school boards, lawyers, lobbyists, etc. Everyone but me. Know how you go to a party and everyone asks ...
Continue Reading →I know I usually write about fun, and sex (or lack of!) online dating, and sometimes how much my ex gets on my nerves. Well, I haven’t written about my ex getting on my nerves lately because he isn’t. And when he was, it usually had to do with issues that had to deal more with me, not him. So ex-husband if you’re reading this (and I know you are!) we’re cool. What I’ve been thinking ...
Continue Reading →Hello love, KHDG in tha house! (My sons would cringe if they knew I was using that kind of language in my writings…they have told me I am not cool!) Let’s talk about Prop 8.
It sucks. Mosey on over to my Examiner article which I have titled, “Repeal Prop 8: Let gays marry and divorce like us straights!” I was going to use the title “Let homos marry and divorce like us heteros!” but was ...
Continue Reading →Read Part One of “Divorce Guru gets relationship coach to help her pathetic love life!”
The first thing my relationship coach Suzanne Blake asked me was:
What type of men have you been attracting? My theory of the dating is that of the Law of Attraction. We attract at the level we are at. Women and men can learn a lot about their subconscious feeling and thoughts ...
Continue Reading →I’m sure you’ve read or heard about Kate Gosselin’s 20 hour hair extensions by now. If you haven’t I’ll fill you in.
Kate Gosselin got married to Jon, had 2 kids, had 6 more (invitro) then got a reality show, Jon & Kate plus 8 (get it 8 kids?). Her and hubby Jon started fighting, got divorced, now she has the show on her own, cutting her ex out of $70,000 an episode. Nicely ...
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