by Kim Hess on June 29, 2011
Sometimes you’ve got to lose it all in order to have it all. -Raquel Eatmon I’ve decided to lose it all. I decided to lose my best friend, my marriage, my nuclear “All-American” family, my city apartment with a view, my cool hip friends and lovers, my art museums and $15 salads. I’ve also decided [...]
by Kim Hess on March 5, 2010
Hello All! I sincerely apologize for my lack of posts these last few weeks. As all of you know I started this site to share my experience with divorce as well as help others heal, live in joy, and turn the challenging times and feelings of divorce into triumphs. Which is exactly what I’ve done. [...]
by Kim Hess on January 26, 2010
I was reading a posting on Divorce360.com which posed the question, “If you marry again, what will be different?” I admit, the thought of marrying again has crossed my mind. And my canned response is always “If I get married again, my husband will live next door…or on the other side of the country!” That [...]
by Kim Hess on January 14, 2010
I know I usually write about fun, and sex (or lack of!) online dating, and sometimes how much my ex gets on my nerves. Well, I haven’t written about my ex getting on my nerves lately because he isn’t. And when he was, it usually had to do with issues that had to deal more [...]
by Kim Hess on January 12, 2010
Online date #345 was a great guy. Handsome. successful, business owner…something to do with consulting or headhunting or accounting. I don’ know…when you’re a Divorce Guru every other job seems very normal and unweird versus what I do everyday! This online date was a winner. But then again so am I. We met on the [...]
by Kim Hess on January 8, 2010
Read Part One of “Divorce Guru gets relationship coach to help her pathetic love life!” The first thing my relationship coach Suzanne Blake asked me was: What type of men have you been attracting? My theory of the dating is that of the Law of Attraction. We attract at the level we are at. Women [...]
by Kim Hess on December 3, 2009
Hello dear reader. How are you doing today? I mean how are you REALLY doing? So many times when people ask us that question we automatically say, “Fine, fine” or “pretty good, how ’bout you?” So your Divorce Guru is asking you to be honest and stop and actually think about how you’re doing today. [...]