by Kim Hess on February 3, 2010
I was reading a blog post today called “Online Dating is Like Eating Leftovers.” This topic brought up lots of opinions about divorced dating, online dating, men who date women half their age, and bitter woman over 40. Wow! Of course, your Divorce Guru had to give her two cents: I get what Cheryl is [...]
by Kim Hess on January 26, 2010
I was reading a posting on Divorce360.com which posed the question, “If you marry again, what will be different?” I admit, the thought of marrying again has crossed my mind. And my canned response is always “If I get married again, my husband will live next door…or on the other side of the country!” That [...]
by Kim Hess on January 25, 2010
Heard about Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie possibly splitting? The News of the World, a British publication (trashy tabloid!) came out a few days ago saying that Brangelina were splitting up. Angie supposedly was to live with the kids and Brad was going to live next door. I read it, and the news came as [...]
by Kim Hess on January 15, 2010
“Was it a younger woman?” This question has haunted me ever since I separated from my ex husband…I’m young, attractive, smart. So it had to be a younger woman, right? I went to a cocktail party last night (thanks B.G.!) which was thrown by a political consulting firm. Everyone at the party had something to [...]
by Kim Hess on January 14, 2010
I know I usually write about fun, and sex (or lack of!) online dating, and sometimes how much my ex gets on my nerves. Well, I haven’t written about my ex getting on my nerves lately because he isn’t. And when he was, it usually had to do with issues that had to deal more [...]
by Kim Hess on January 7, 2010
I’m sure you’ve read or heard about Kate Gosselin’s 20 hour hair extensions by now. If you haven’t I’ll fill you in. Kate Gosselin got married to Jon, had 2 kids, had 6 more (invitro) then got a reality show, Jon & Kate plus 8 (get it 8 kids?). Her and hubby Jon started fighting, [...]
by Kim Hess on January 5, 2010
I admit the title of this post was just to get your attention. My love life isn’t that pathetic. I had 3 dates last week…all with great, handsome, intelligent guys. But no 2nd dates. And I also had a guy with the screen name “BlackMeatByThePound” contact me online. Okay,maybe my love life is just a [...]
by Kim Hess on December 31, 2009
Are you divorced on New Years Eve 2010? First of all, let’s clear up one thing? Why is it called New Years Eve 2010? Shouldn’t it be called New Years Eve 2009? It is still 2009. It is New Years Eve and it’s 2009. Okay, now that that’s out of the way let me tell [...]
by Kim Hess on December 25, 2009
It’s Thanksgiving! Woo-hoo. I’m assuming you knew that. For those of my readers who are outside of the U.S. and Canada, let me give you the low-down. This is the day where we (Americans) eat turkey, stuffing, pumpkin pie (or sweet potato if you’re African-American) and tell your friends and family why you love them. [...]
by Kim Hess on December 12, 2009
Dear Tiger Woods, I know we haven’t talked in a long time. Well, we have never talked. But I thought it was time to step up and have a woman to man talk with you. I’m Kim Hess your Divorce Guru and it would be nice to keep that cute wife from divorcing you. But [...]