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Hello All!

I sincerely apologize for my lack of posts these last few weeks. As all of you know I started this site to share my experience with divorce as well as help others heal, live in joy, and turn the challenging times and feelings of divorce into triumphs.

Which is exactly what I’ve done.

I’ve built a career and had a great deal of fun doing what I do: being your Divorce Guru. I do this by writing a national column, hosting a radio show that is heard in over 60 countries, doling out relationship advice via video blogs, and of course sharing my sometimes fun, most times excruciatingly painful dating stories with you.

After speaking with dear, dear friends and family that love me more than I can express, I’ve come to a realization. Kim Hess does not equal Divorce Guru.

I started the Divorce Guru brand to heal me. My healing is not complete, may never completely be 100%, but I have progressed. It’s been 2 years plus since the father of my children and I split up for good. If you’re divorced or going through a divorce I don’t have to explain to you the pain I went through.

That pain is done, over. My marriage is done, over. It is time for Kim Hess to move on, to move forward, to move up from walking with the label of divorce. No matter how hard I’ve tried to change the stigma, divorce is just that…a stigma that no one wants to be associated with. Divorce is the opposite of happiness, joy, fun.

Kim Hess has been hiding behind Divorce Guru. Now it’s time for me to come out from behind the clouds of being “divorced” and shine.

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” -Marianne Williamson

This being said, Kim Hess is taking a hiatus from Divorce Guru to plot her next moves in this life. Maybe I’ll keep Divorce Guru as a company minus the Kim Hess, and continue on my quest to help people who are divorced or broken up. Maybe I’ll move to Paris and become a writer. Maybe I’ll move to a beach house and take up surfing. Either way I’ll be happy. ‘Cause I am now…and I’m still glad I got a dee-vorce (as my one friend says it!)

Love to all…
Divorce Guru

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